Recently Diagnosed With Autism

Receiving an autism diagnosis can bring many different emotions. For some people, it provides relief and finally offers an explanation for experiences they have spent years trying to understand. For others, it can bring uncertainty, sadness, anger, confusion or questions about what happens next.

There is no correct way to feel after receiving a diagnosis, and you don’t need to understand everything immediately.

A diagnosis doesn’t change who you are. It can give you a new way of understanding yourself, your experiences and the support that may help you moving forward.

What Might You Feel?

  • Relief

    Finally having an explanation for experiences or differences that may have been difficult to understand.

  • Validation

    Recognising that difficulties you’ve experienced were real and that there may have been reasons behind them.

  • Confusion

    Wondering what being autistic means for you and trying to understand a large amount of new information.

  • Grief

    Some people reflect on earlier experiences, missed support or how life might have been different if they had understood themselves sooner.

  • Uncertainty

    Questions about relationships, work, education, support or whether to tell other people are completely understandable.

  • Self-Discovery

    Diagnosis can begin a longer process of recognising your needs, strengths, boundaries and ways of experiencing the world.

There Doesn’t Have To Be A Rush

After diagnosis, it can sometimes feel as though you should immediately understand autism, identify all of your needs and decide what changes to make.

You don’t have to.

Learning about yourself can happen gradually. You might start by reading about autistic experiences, noticing your sensory needs, recognising when you mask, understanding what overwhelms you or identifying situations where additional support could help.

What matters is discovering what being autistic means for you, rather than trying to fit another person’s experience.

Learning What Works For You

Understanding your needs can involve looking at different parts of everyday life, including communication, sensory environments, routines, relationships, work, education and recovery time.

You may begin recognising situations that require more energy than you previously realised or adjustments that could make everyday life more manageable.

This isn’t about limiting yourself because you’re autistic. It’s about understanding yourself well enough to create environments and routines that work better for you.

Do I Have To Tell Other People?

Deciding who to tell about an autism diagnosis can be a very personal decision.

Some people feel comfortable sharing their diagnosis widely, while others choose to tell only particular people. You may also decide differently depending on the situation.

You don’t have to explain everything about autism when telling someone. You can decide how much you want to share and what you feel comfortable discussing.

In situations such as work or education, understanding your diagnosis may also help you explore what support or reasonable adjustments could be available.

You Don’t Have To Figure Everything Out Alone

Support can look different for different people. It might come from family, friends, autistic communities, peer support, charities, healthcare professionals, education providers or workplace support.

Connecting with other autistic people can also provide an opportunity to hear different experiences and realise that many of the things you’ve experienced aren’t yours alone.

Remember that online information and other people’s experiences can be useful, but they don’t replace individual professional advice where this is needed.

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Your Diagnosis Is The Beginning Of Understanding, Not The End Of Your Story

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